You don’t need me to mansplain sexual harassment for you. You don’t need me to opine about how the broken power structures of race and gender still warp opportunity for far too many.

I do want to say this one thing. If the #metoo conversation and the ensuing cascade of women finally coming forward to tell their long kept stories of sexual intimidation and aggression leave you feeling like men are under attack, you’ve been doing the man-thing wrong the whole time.